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NEW TO THE SCENE? START HERE An Elegant Soiree… and a life changing experience.
It is normal for a couple or single girl to be nervous the first time they go to one of our parties. We’ve all been there. If you’re new to the scene it is difficult to imagine these parties but once you’ve been to one, you’ll be hooked. Almost all swinging takes place without the knowledge of friends or family. For most, it becomes a parallel secret life, which is rather fun. Sharing an exciting double life and keeping it secret from friends and family is something that brings many couples closer together. You’re both in it together and no-one’s is being betrayed or feeling guilty. Swinging brings a contentment and self-confidence that spills over into your every day life. It is a life changing experience.
Before the Party Work out what you’ll answer when asked for your name, job, where you’re from, etc. You do not need to give your real names and nobody will expect to know your surname or where you work. Sticking to your real first name is usually the simplest but that’s up to you. If you’re coming as a couple – work out beforehand your expectations regarding playing with others. Are you planning to meet another couple and swap partners? Or are you planning to venture off, each person on his own, to join others separately? Discuss among yourselves what your wishes and plans are and don’t forget that you’re always free to change your mind. If you’re coming as a couple – it is perfectly fine if you decide not to join in with another couple or a group scene and only play with each other. New couples will often take this approach as having sex alongside others doing the same is a liberating experience in itself. There are also those couples who are only too keen to start playing with others, and others who come into swinging primarily to satisfy the female partner’s bisexual needs. It’s all good. Anything that happens on a sexual level is entirely up to those involved, women are always in control and a simple gesture is all that’s needed to fend off any unwanted advances. Nothing sexual is required or expected of anyone.
A comprehensive list of our rules are here
Once You’re in Our parties are classy, exclusive and private. Once you’re in, they kick off as an elegant Soirée – guests mingle around, drinking and chatting, meeting old friends and making new ones. Of course, you can always choose to leave. But why would you? At your first-ever event it’s always a good idea to tell other members that this is your first time. Members of the community are protective towards new members and will help you through your first experience.
So it kicks off as a classy party… Then what? As people get to know each other they’ll start showing interest towards potential partners. Once two people, a couple, or more “hit it off” with another person or couple they simply invite the others into a private room. This can be done directly (“would you like to go over there?”) or non verbally, with a smile and a head gesture. If you’re interested, follow the other person or couple to the other room. If you’re not interested, you can simply decline. Once in a private room guests start playing with each other, often quickly, but always respecting the other person’s or couple’s boundaries. Don’t forget that you can always change your mind and ask the other person to stop doing whatever he or she is doing.
Dress to Impress.. & Undress Our parties are not fetish parties but exclusive gatherings of the scene’s most attractive and classy couples and single ladies. Follow our dress code – from 22.30 onwards it is obligatory for the ladies to stay in sexy lingerie of brands such as Agent Provocateur, La Perla, Coco de Mer and Victoria’s Secret and the men must remove their shirts. Men must present themselves in sharp looking suits.
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Dear Club Hermione, We want to thank you so very much for your hospitality. You location was stunning & your guests were all sexy, classy, charming, & friendly. We can’t wait to see you again for another delicious taste of excitement with you. Charlotte & Daniel
Dear Club H, Thank you for such a sexually liberating and fantastically naughty night yesterday. Greg and I met an amazing couple we sexually connected with like no other. Looking forward to another saucy evening soon, Katy & Greg
Hi, Thank you for quite the experience! I felt very secure with the ‘no phones’ policy. The venue, it felt safe and secure. The length of the party was just right. Overall a very positive experience for my first ever party. I was very nervous when I first arrived and the ‘hosts’ put me at ease and made me feel very welcome. Sophie